Two Questions, One Answer
Asking the right questions is at the heart of effective communication. I ask lots of questions. What I can't figure out is how to get answers. I'm not going to take all the blame, because some people are just terrible communicators. Seriously, awful. But I need to learn to ask one question at a time in order to avoid situations like this: Me: Do you want to go separately or together? You: Yeah, that works for me. Me: What?! Or this: Me: Does he get in to the show for free or does he have to use one of his comps? You: He does. Me: Two questions, one answer. Which is it? And I see what's happening, but why doesn't anyone else? I never do this!! When I hear two questions, I pick the option I want! I discuss, I use my words! Is this weird? Should I not ask two questions at one time? I have so much to say! And why would I say: Me: Do you want to drive separately? You: No let's go together. Nevermind, that does make sense. You're right that i...